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COUNSEL TO A YOUNG WIFE (1)

We were at family devotion that day and we were focused on giving. My wife said, “It has been a while I gave to my husband as my pastor”. One of the young ladies at home said, “But you give to him regularly as your husband”. Irewamiri told her, “Giving to him as my Pastor is a different thing altogether”. […]

COUNSEL FOR YOUNG HUSBANDS (7) – final charge

CLICK HERE TO READ COUNSEL FOR YOUNG HUSBANDS (6 When my phone rang that day, it was a call from a dear mother. She hit it straight: “There is a boy always hanging around your sister now. What do you think about him?” The boy in question happens to be my friend. I spoke highly of him. Today they are […]

COUNSEL FOR YOUNG HUSBANDS (6)

CLICK HERE TO READ COUNSEL FOR YOUNG HUSBANDS (5) It was some weeks to the end of the year. That evening, my dear wife mentioned some things that she needed to get done but I had no means to handle it. Interestingly, they were not really big obligations but they were quite important. It got at her. Obviously it got […]

COUNSEL FOR YOUNG HUSBANDS (5)

CLICK HERE TO READ COUNSEL FOR YOUNG HUSBANDS (4) My teacher looked at me that day and said, “For the first two weeks of our marriage, we did not have sex”. I was wondering what the problem was with him and his wife! Did you fight? So what were you people waiting for? What happened? I did not understand. Then […]

COUNSEL FOR YOUNG HUSBANDS (4)

CLICK HERE TO READ COUNSEL FOR YOUNG HUSBANDS (3) She strolled to me in the living room and asked, “How do you love your fried plantain?” Unfortunately for me I responded with, “the way ____ fried it the last time”. My wife’s face changed. My apology had to be processed. I explained and explained that I was not comparing! Dear […]

COUNSEL FOR YOUNG HUSBANDS (3)

CLICK HERE TO READ COUNSEL FOR YOUNG HUSBANDS (2) The night I proposed to my beloved wife and she told me “No” with quite some reasons. As the reasons began to roll in, I perceived God speaking to me: “I have placed my daughter in your hands because I know you will not break her again”. God hinted me about […]

COUNSEL FOR YOUNG HUSBANDS (2)

CLICK HERE TO READ COUNSEL FOR YOUNG HUSBANDS (1) Just few weeks after our honeymoon, I came home that evening to a slightly moody wife- one word answers and feigned smiles. I could not remember us having any fight earlier. I asked questions upon questions but got no answer. For about two hours, she just wanted to be on her […]

COUNSEL FOR YOUNG HUSBANDS (1)

In the midst of our disagreement that day, I wondered why such a little issue could bring about such huge reactions. (Some responses you get at times goes deeper than the issue itself. Men must learn to listen to what has not been said also until your wife masters the art of expressing herself) I was concerned. I called our […]

ASSUMPTION IS COSTLIER

When we hooked up with my friend who had gone ahead to get us a room in the hotel for our first night as a couple, we loved what we saw. The hotel shared borders with a great view of the ocean. We thought that the rooms facing the great ocean view would be more expensive and we were almost […]

THIS WILL HELP YOUR MARRIAGE

As we drove away from the place of the interview, I told Irewamiri that the singular most essential ingredient for a great marriage is training. A lot of people marry because they are in love but they end up managing crisis because they are not trained. It is a burden that we study in school for years to become a […]