DEALING WITH STRANGE ATTRACTIONS AFTER MARRIAGE 1

A man told his pastor, “I always look forward to Monday every week”. The pastor asked him why. He said, “I like seeing and spending time with my secretary”. His pastor told him to sack the secretary immediately. Right after you say “I do”, There is a tendency to meet someone who seems better than your spouse. There is always […]

There is love in sharing

WHEN THEY SAY “LET US FACE REALITY”

Just as we prepared for marriage, someone who I believe cared genuinely asked a question. He looked at me with a serious gaze and said, “What will your wife ever do that will make you leave her?” I did not blink twice before I responded, “Sir, whatever can make Christ leave the church is what will make me leave my […]

There is love in sharing

DO NOT REMOVE THE STRAINER

We just realised that the water in the kitchen sink would not flow out. Even when it drains, it would take a lot of time. By the time we got a plumber to check, there were blockages. Things that had no business being washed into the sink were finding their way there. Someone did not realise how important that tiny […]

There is love in sharing

EXCITEMENT MUST BE WITH GUIDANCE

Right after the scan was done, we were leaving the ultrasound room with so much joy and excitement. We handed over the results to the doctor (who is also a childhood friend). He scanned through the results. The next words he said set the tone for the journey. He looked at this excited couple and said, “Congratulations. On this journey […]

There is love in sharing

THAT EVIL AGENDA IS CANCELLED

I had been waiting on the Lord that weekend. Saturday was meant to be the final day of the fast.  I just sensed in my spirit to wait for one more day. So, I decided to extend the fast till after our Sunday service. I sat in my office after service when a minister walked in with the news that […]

There is love in sharing

YOUR OBEDIENCE IS A KINGDOM MOVE

A dear teacher shared how he got a gift of several suits. He tried them on, and they were quite fitting. He was glad. At last, his wardrobe would change. At last, he would have a highly respected look. As he drove home from Lagos back to his city, which was hundreds of kilometres. As he passed by a church […]

There is love in sharing

THREE THINGS THE DEVIL MUST NOT HIJACK

The television screen lit up. It was an unusual sight. I heard adults say, “The United States is under attack.” By the time the news fully unfolded, we saw clips of airplanes crashing into buildings. It was a sad sight. Lives were lost.  Airplanes meant to land safely in predetermined locations were hijacked by terrorists and turned into weapons of […]

There is love in sharing

DENY THE DEVIL HIS FOOD 

In our first year at the University, some students (whom we later discovered were part of the Students’ Union security team) came into our room. They asked for my childhood friend. Apparently, there had been a false accusation. A phone was stolen. Someone he knew was accused of theft. In order to get to the root of the matter, they […]

There is love in sharing

DO NOT LET FEAR HIJACK YOUR IMAGINATION 

As children, Dad would listen to late-night news on the radio. My most dreaded time at night was when he would say, “Temi, go and bring the radio.” Why was a simple task dreadful? My imagination was something else.  I would have to walk through a small corridor that is dark most of the time to get to his room. […]

There is love in sharing