STRIFE WILL KEEP YOU SMALL

Before Irewamiri knew I would get to ask for her hand in marriage, I had a code that one of her friends gave me- she loved a particular drink. I began to keep the drink handy in my office.  One evening, I handed over the drink to her. As she stepped out, one of her friends took it from her. […]

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IF YOU ARE CALLED, BE ENCOURAGED

Someone saw my brother and asked about me. My brother told him that I was in the land of Eruwa doing the work of ministry. He told my brother, “He cannot last in the land. I tried it, and the church closed up. That land is not an easy place.” He saw my brother some years later and asked, “Is […]

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YOU CAN’T POUR FROM AN EMPTY CUP

As we returned home that day, Danielle began showing signs of hunger. Irewamiri tried different means to placate. It would seem to work for a while as we distracted her momentarily. Then, she would begin to throw tantrums again. We made it home, and then the tears went to a new level. Irewamiri, though moved by her tears, said to […]

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HOW THINGS GET LOST (9) – SENSE OF ENTITLEMENT 

There was a young man who found favour with a wealthy man. He was an orphan. He came in contact with a billionaire. The billionaire committed himself to him. Anything he needs, the billionaire gives.   One day, the billionaire asked him, “Do you have a laptop?” He said he did not. The billionaire told him he was meant to […]

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HOW THINGS GET LOST (8) – IGNORANCE OF PROTOCOL

A dear one shared with me how he lost the opportunity for deeper access to a prominent figure. The person gave him huge platforms twice at major events where he gained visibility. Interestingly, he even got an offer to serve at the Federal Level of governance, which he declined. It was that kind of opportunity that was rolling in. One […]

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HOW THINGS GET LOST (7) – WRONG TIMING 

That Sunday, I sat in the car outside the church hall. I saw her walk out of her evening fellowship meeting accompanied by one of the brothers in their fellowship. My heart skipped, and I was wondering if I was not being too slow. Thoughts like, “What if someone else asks her out before me?” I wanted to go ahead […]

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HOW THINGS GET LOST (6) – WRONG INTERPRETATION

At about 10.30 pm, I was lying down on the couch at home when an image flashed into my mind. I saw something that prompted me to say that there were adjustments and improvements to make to our facility. I made a mental note to give instructions about it in the morning.  The interpretation I gave was wrong. What the […]

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HOW THINGS GET LOST (5) – UNRESTRAINED INQUISITIVENESS 

An investigative video by one of the popular media outfits came up on my YouTube feed. I love investigative journalism. I had a brief stint in Mass Communication. The investigation was about how teenage girls are seduced and abused digitally.  Knowing that I was also interested and called to young people, my antenna rose. As I clicked the video, the […]

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HOW THINGS GET LOST (4) – CARELESSNESS

I was in my teenage season. Mum called me that afternoon and gave me instructions to get pepper from the woman who supplies us. I approached my childhood friend and got his bicycle for the assignment. I rode all the way to the woman who sells pepper. They blended it. The journey back home began. It was a smooth ride. […]

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HOW THINGS GET LOST (3) – INSENSITIVE CELEBRATIONS 

There are things that must only happen to you once in a lifetime- you become wise after the first occurrence. That was my 2005 lesson.  My childhood friend had a lovely digital camera. We travelled with it when we resumed university.  I had used it occasionally to capture moments. I had pictures of our visit to the deputy governor of […]

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