OVERCOMING PORN ADDICTION 6

When he confessed how much he had struggled with porn which has also led to other strange vices because of the appetite that has been created, and that he was struggling hard to break the pattern.  I had to teach him the principle of saying (not thinking) “No” when the desire comes to his mind. It was initially hard practising […]

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OVERCOMING PORN ADDICTION 5

Some years back, while sitting in the library at home, I heard Irewamiri scolding a young lady who just came in. She said, “You and all this your short skirts”. I heard where I was, and I wanted to stand up to see who she was talking to. That very moment, as I wanted to stand, the Holy Spirit asked […]

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OVERCOMING PORN ADDICTION 4

The young man said, “Pastor, I have tried all I can, and nothing seems to work. I have even gotten pastors to lay hands on me, and it did not work”. I knew I needed the wisdom of God to let him understand. I turned my eyes to the huge stone that was used to put some grip on the […]

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OVERCOMING PORN ADDICTION 3

One of the things that made watching porn very easy for me in my few months stint at a state university was because I had easy access to it. My flatmates had some of the video discs in our shared lockers. This is the deal- Because I wanted to still keep my reputation as a good boy, I would never […]

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OVERCOMING PORN ADDICTION 2

I used to think it was a weakness- as a teenager, I could literally undress any woman with my eyes and in my mind. It did not matter where. My curiosity was triggered by my love for reading. I had a large appetite for reading. I would soak in all the explicit imagery from romance novels, and we had some […]

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OVERCOMING PORN ADDICTION 1

At a point, it became very appalling to see explicit clips pop up on my screens. It could be an advert while opening an application or an advert while watching sane content. It could be a clip right after seeing a sermon. I wondered what the matter was, but it finally dawned on me—you market your products to strangers and […]

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THE HOLY SPIRIT- YOUR PARTNER IN BUILDING A GREAT MARRIAGE 10

Sometime in 2018, the Lord gave Irewamiri a word about my ministerial journey. I got into a perfect alignment with that word in 2022. We were with my Spiritual Father when she expressed her joy about how I finally came into alignment with that Word. She was not permitted to tell me that word, yet she had to wait patiently […]

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THE HOLY SPIRIT- YOUR PARTNER IN BUILDING A GREAT MARRIAGE 9

My spiritual father was sharing in a service about how the first two years of their marriage were turbulent. He said that he would go to places to minister and preach until people started shaking and then humorously added that his own marriage was also shaking. They were even at the point of considering a divorce. He then took the […]

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THE HOLY SPIRIT- YOUR PARTNER IN BUILDING A GREAT MARRIAGE 8

When we were instructed to relocate to the city of Ibadan to pioneer a new work, it was a stretch for our faith walk as a family—the cost of accommodation was not the same as our beloved Eruwa. We had to move from “free education” to paying fees. Even though we heard him, personally, my faith was being tested, especially […]

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THE HOLY SPIRIT- YOUR PARTNER IN BUILDING A GREAT MARRIAGE 7

I was in a dilemma regarding our Secondary School vision. I went to the Lord in prayer about it. I received insight from the Lord but did not know how to convince Irewamiri. It was going to be a tall order. I drove to her business place and said to her, “Darling, I need your help. You may have to […]

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