Just a few days before my wedding, a dear teacher sat me down and gave me a full session about sexual intimacy. He taught me many things scripturally and biologically. There was something he said that I will never forget. I have shared the same lesson with everyone I have mentored towards marriage. It is a life-saving statement. He said […]
A young husband shared with me about how displeased he was with his wife, but he did not want to get offended. One evening, his wife was commenting about how relieved she had been, and he responded that, “It is because you have been receiving help”. The wife agreed and mentioned the young lady who had been working with her. […]
A dear teacher said he told his wife, “In this marriage, I do not have an opinion and you do not have an opinion. We only do what the Word of God says we should do”. They both agreed that their marriage would be governed by the Word of the Lord. It is one of the finest marriages I have […]
At the early stage of our marriage, I was the phone presser. I would return from work and get on my phone, responding to messages and chatting with others. I neglected the wife God gave me to nurture. One day, she had said something thrice, and I did not hear her once. She left me to myself. I only saw […]
There was a brother who vowed that he would never repeat his father’s mistakes. He hated his father for his terrible attitude- the man beats his wife. He vowed that it would never happen to him. At a point, he was encouraged to forgive his father, but he found it difficult. He could not. Some years later, as a married […]
A dear teacher shared about how he loved visiting his uncle and his wife as a young man. He made it a priority to always visit them. Why? There was love, joy and peace in their home. There was something different about their marriage. It was different from his parents’ marriage, where the voices were either loud or totally silent. […]
I had reasons to interact with the executives of a Christian Youth Organization. One thing led to the other, and I learned that one of the females has a pattern of housing her fiancé whenever he comes around. I was in shock. When I asked her questions, she said, “Sir, he comes from far and we do not do anything […]
When the Lord told me that I would be heading to Eruwa for ministry, I prepared a simple document of my journey from 2006 till 2011, when I was to respond to the call of God. I had an update on everything he had continuously said about the ministry with time stamps on each of them. A dear aunt who […]
A dear sister and friend of mine asked me years ago, “Do you know this pastor?” I did not know the person. She said to me, “Pastor Temi, I think the two of you should be friends”. That was all she said. I thought it was one of those friendly conversations, and I did not take any action about it- […]
We were house-hunting about eight years ago. It had become a need. The Lord just led us to leave our rented house and most of the things in it, including everything in our living room and most of the other things, to those the Lord called alongside to serve with us in Eruwa. We needed a new house. Irewamiri was […]
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