One of the things I needed to fight was the unexplainable habit of undressing a woman in my mind. It was a battle. From my teenage years, I had to struggle with it. At least, I could not be closing my eyes everywhere I see a woman. I knew I had to deal with it. How did the Lord help […]
I got into the car that morning so I could take my children to school. Interestingly, the engine roared to life. However, nothing else would come up- the gear was stuck and none of the lights were coming on. We had to find an alternative. When the professional came, he said, “It must have been giving signals that you ignored”. […]
When I battled addiction, I came up with a great strategy or so I thought. I prayed and made a vow that the day I do such nonsense, the Lord should kill me. In fact, I used to say that my coffin should be ready. I desperately needed freedom but guess what, today I am grateful for prayers God did […]
A dear wife who loved her husband dearly reached out to their spiritual father to inform him that the man was trapped in porn addiction, and she had to open up. The spiritual father reached out and called for a meeting. When the man was on the way, he felt angry that his wife reported him but suddenly, the Holy […]
When he confessed how much he had struggled with porn which has also led to other strange vices because of the appetite that has been created, and that he was struggling hard to break the pattern. I had to teach him the principle of saying (not thinking) “No” when the desire comes to his mind. It was initially hard practising […]
Some years back, while sitting in the library at home, I heard Irewamiri scolding a young lady who just came in. She said, “You and all this your short skirts”. I heard where I was, and I wanted to stand up to see who she was talking to. That very moment, as I wanted to stand, the Holy Spirit asked […]
The young man said, “Pastor, I have tried all I can, and nothing seems to work. I have even gotten pastors to lay hands on me, and it did not work”. I knew I needed the wisdom of God to let him understand. I turned my eyes to the huge stone that was used to put some grip on the […]
One of the things that made watching porn very easy for me in my few months stint at a state university was because I had easy access to it. My flatmates had some of the video discs in our shared lockers. This is the deal- Because I wanted to still keep my reputation as a good boy, I would never […]
I used to think it was a weakness- as a teenager, I could literally undress any woman with my eyes and in my mind. It did not matter where. My curiosity was triggered by my love for reading. I had a large appetite for reading. I would soak in all the explicit imagery from romance novels, and we had some […]
At a point, it became very appalling to see explicit clips pop up on my screens. It could be an advert while opening an application or an advert while watching sane content. It could be a clip right after seeing a sermon. I wondered what the matter was, but it finally dawned on me—you market your products to strangers and […]
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