CONQUERING DISTRACTION (4): FROM HIGHFLIER TO AVERAGE

As a secondary (high) school student, the session began with some amazing decisions. I would have new notes, a blue or black pen accompanied by a red one, and a ruler. The goal was to have a neat and complete note. Who was like me?  It always started well. I would write the date in the top left corner. I […]

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CONQUERING DISTRACTION (3): DISTRACTION BEGINS WITH ATTRACTION

The first time I fell in love, I had some unforgettable moments. I had fallen head over heels. It became so bad that if I was heading to pray and the babe requested a meet-up, I would postpone my prayer time to see her. It was becoming a distraction. One day, while I was praying, I heard the Lord instruct […]

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CONQUERING DISTRACTION (2): THE THIEF OF TIME

I stole meat from the pot as a young boy. It was quite bad that Mum had to start counting the pieces of meat in the stew. Like a genius, I adopted the slim-fitting pattern. I would take small portions off each chunk rather than steal a whole piece of meat at a go. The pieces of meat in the […]

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CONQUERING DISTRACTION (1): THE SUBTLE STRATEGY OF DISTRACTION

My Dad would sometimes spend time playing with us as kids. We would always get into mock boxing. It was not the real deal. Dad was a professional (at least in our eyes). He would make a move as though he was going to kick your stomach. As you attempt to cover your stomach, he would attack another part of […]

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WHAT YOUR WORDS ARE DOING TO YOUR HOME (2)

I still remember very vividly the woman in labour. I was about ten years old. She kept laying curses on her husband, who was not in the hospital at that time. As a young boy, I was surprised. They were too heavy for my head to process.  The matron cautioned her at different times, but when the elderly matron could […]

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WHAT YOUR WORDS ARE DOING TO YOUR HOME (1)

It was a pretty interesting week. Irewamiri and I had quite some intense disagreements. Amazingly, it was happening at the end of a personal fast. We struggled through it that week. We spoke quite some weighty words to one another. I remember telling her, “I am afraid of you.” She responded that she was tired of me and that I […]

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ARE YOUR WORDS BUILDING OR BREAKING YOUR HOME?

I still remember the exact spot where we were that day. Irewamiri sneezed, and I said to her, “Same to you.” She exploded. “Are there any words of kindness in your diary? What happened to ‘Sorry dear’ or ‘Bless you dear’? What is the meaning of ‘Same to you.’ It is better not to speak at all.”  I was in […]

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DESTINY DOESN’T SKIP STEPS

In our secondary school days, we used a Mathematics textbook called the New General Mathematics. It was full of exercises. The unique thing was that it had answers on the last pages of the book. The answers were to confirm if the solution was right or wrong after the student had practised. Whenever the math got tough, we’d flip to […]

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STRIFE WILL KEEP YOU SMALL

Before Irewamiri knew I would get to ask for her hand in marriage, I had a code that one of her friends gave me- she loved a particular drink. I began to keep the drink handy in my office.  One evening, I handed over the drink to her. As she stepped out, one of her friends took it from her. […]

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IF YOU ARE CALLED, BE ENCOURAGED

Someone saw my brother and asked about me. My brother told him that I was in the land of Eruwa doing the work of ministry. He told my brother, “He cannot last in the land. I tried it, and the church closed up. That land is not an easy place.” He saw my brother some years later and asked, “Is […]

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