HONOUR FATHERS, DO NOT DESPISE BROTHERS

We were visiting with “Egbon” (an elder brother in the faith and his wife) who are dear teachers to us. We had desired to go for a long while but eventually, we pushed and it happened. We had enough time to ask questions and discuss different issues.  One of the days, he began to share experiences from their journey in […]

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THE PATIENT WHOSE FOOT HAD TO BE AMPUTATED

A doctor had to explain to a patient that a gangrenous foot had to be amputated.  He told the patient what Jesus said “And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and cast it from you; for it is more profitable for you that one of your members perish than for your whole body to be […]

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DO NOT HIDE WHEN YOU NEED HELP 

I made my considerable share of mistakes as a young minister. They were flowing out of genuine passion that lacked guidance and accountability. Financial issues were a touchy ground for me both as a husband and as a pastor.  There was a time I would use our personal money or Irewamiri’s money to settle ministry bills. It was a form […]

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YOU WILL REPEAT WHAT YOU HATED IN YOUR FATHER EXCEPT… 

During one of our training sessions, a young man stood up and said to me, “I hate my father and what he is doing but I am doing exactly the same today. I hated to see my father drunk but now I am drinking. I know that I will end up like him looking at the path I am already […]

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DO NOT USE THE SPIRIT TO DRIVE YOUR OWN AGENDA

Some years ago, after we finished a major event, we had one or two people who wanted to see us. A young man came in and told us that he was really blessed by the meeting. According to him, he was about to head to his own church that morning when the spirit took him and brought him to ours. […]

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WHEN YOU ARE SENT BUT YOU REFUSE TO DELIVER AS SENT!

There was a day I was catching a nap in my grandfather’s house when an elderly couple walked in. I woke up momentarily to attend to them. They said, “When Grandpa and Grandma comes, tell them that mummy has been discharged from the hospital”. I nodded and told them I would deliver the message.  Well! I forgot to deliver the […]

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IF GOD CAN HAVE YOUR LIFE…

Irewamiri and I had to make a very wise decision early in courtship; we were going to save as much as possible towards our wedding and marriage. What led to that decision? She just finished serving the nation and all I had guarantee of every month as a Pastor was five thousand naira! We knew we had to be smart.  […]

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ABOUT ACCUSATIONS, ENSURE THAT YOU DO NO LESS THAN THIS

One evening, a young man reported a minister of the gospel to me. It was a grave accusation bordering on sexual infidelity. I requested to contact the person involved. Eventually, the minister reached out himself. His defence was outrageous but I gave him that chance of fair hearing.  The Apostle Paul wrote: “Do not receive an accusation against an elder […]

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YOUR DEFENCE IS YOUR IDENTITY

I was with a dear brother. We were having a private conversation over dinner at a hotel restaurant. While eating, three ladies wearing sequins (shiny apparel) with apparent slits approached our table and said, “We are offering free wine tonight”.  The beloved one with me looked up and said, “We are pastors”. That ended the conversation. They left immediately. He […]

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THE TASTY GOAT MEAT AND THE “NO” OF THE HOLY SPIRIT

We had a plate of rice with some nicely peppered goat meat. I wanted some more goat meat so I told Irewamiri. I convinced her to give me one more especially since I would be away from home for a while. She raised her eyebrow but could not resist my persuasive skills.  As she left the dining table to pick […]

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