I did not love a particular house chore while growing up, and it was worse on a Sunday afternoon. As a Pastor’s child, you would have people follow you home. So, it made me hate that house chore more- Washing Dishes! You would help in the kitchen to get the meals ready, and when everyone settles down to one game […]
It was September 2009, the Universities were on strike that year and my mobilization to Nigerian Law School was not yet effected. But I committed the time to reading and studying in the middle of the night. I wanted to invest my time in personal development. I was reading “Principles and Benefits of Change” written by Dr. Myles Munroe at […]
Just after midnight, I was just settling down to spend some time in prayers and study the Word when I heard the shuffling of tiny feet and an attempt to open a door. I stood up and approached the door to the girls’ room. As I opened the door, I saw Danielle half awake right behind it. I asked, “Baby, […]
In a bid to get me to support her on house chores because of all my complaints, Irewamiri said to me one day in anger, “Am I your Fatima?” She was asking figuratively whether she was my housemaid. I knew what she wanted. I knew what she meant. However, she did not get me to do house chores by squeezing […]
In the early days of our marriage, I would complain that I did not like the sight of used plates in the kitchen. Leaving plates overnight was a capital offence in my parents’ house. It does not occur all the time but once was enough to get me upset. Irewamiri also had a point- she is tired after cooking especially […]
At a point, I realised that when you watch a video on social media, there would then be a series of videos that will show next or will be suggested. Sometimes, after watching a live prayer session, the next suggestions were quite suggestive and unedifying. It was so tempting to stay on skits. There are places you must never be. […]
It was right in the middle of a lecture when a colleague stepped out to get a bottle of drink in the faculty canteen. When she stepped back into the class, the lecturer was visibly annoyed. He paused and asked, “What is your name?” She mentioned her first name but he insisted on knowing her full name. When she mentioned […]
Olive ran in to pick new briefs for herself. As I walked out of the library, she said, “Daddy is this how to wear it?” I did not get her at first and she then said, “Is this the front?” I checked it out and saw the ‘label’ part was placed in front. I told her, ‘The label goes to […]
Danielle woke up in the middle of the night while I worked. After a while, she mentioned that she was hungry. There was a cup of beverage that Olive only took a sip out of some hours earlier. I offered that to her. As she drank, she wanted to move her leg and it all poured away. It pained me […]
Years ago, I still remember where we sat as I shared the gospel of Christ with her that evening. I admired her strength but I noticed her mood swings. I had a prompt to speak to her about Christ. I did but she had a question for me: She called me my nickname back in the days and added, “I […]
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