OF “GOD SEES MY HEART” AND GODLY STANDARDS 

A while back, one of the Christian organizations I relate with paid us a courtesy visit in the office. In the middle of our conversation, I realised that one of the female executives had no issue with having her male fiancé spend the night in her room. I had to take out time to teach and guide them by the […]

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I WANTED TO PICK HER HEARTBEAT

It was our first few weeks into marriage. I cannot particularly remember what led to the misunderstanding (Not sure if there was any in the first place). All I remember was my lovely wife went into the guest room and locked the door from behind- she did not want me close at all. Having no other choice, I picked up […]

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DO NOT LET THE MESS STOP YOU 

Some years ago, It was my cousin’s wedding. I was driving down from Iseyin to Ibadan that cool Saturday in October. I had an associate in ministry with me. Just a few kilometres from the wedding venue, I was pressed. I wanted to do the minor.  I found a convenient spot in a bushy area. I parked the vehicle and […]

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THE DAY I LIED TO DADDY

While I was still living with my parents, I was heading to the office in the morning but could not find the car key. I searched for it everywhere to no avail. I had a prompt to check the car itself. I found it locked inside the car. I remembered that Dad had a spare key. I went to ask […]

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STOP ENJOYING “STRANGE” ATTENTION 

I went to minister in a church some years back. I was in my final year at the University. I noticed that every time I looked in a particular direction, a young lady’s gaze was constantly on me.  After service, I was interacting with a small group of people in the church. I cannot remember whether she was there or […]

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YOU ARE NOT IMMUNE TO TEMPTATION

Some years ago, it was a season when I needed money. I left home to visit an uncle of mine who came into town. While with him, he stepped out for a bit. There was a huge sum of money on his bed. Do you know that strange thoughts began to come to me, “Why don’t you take a little […]

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WHO CHALLENGES YOU ABOUT SEX?

Our very first visit as an intending couple to my Spiritual Parents was a tough time. The first question that my fiancée (as she then was) was asked made us heave a sigh of relief. The question was simple but profound, “Has he slept with you?” She responded in the negative. And the next thing was “Tell us now so […]

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HOW TO MAKE YOUR JOURNEY LONGER

I was in my uncle’s house doing some work. I needed something from the church office. I called the office assistant to bring it to me. I gave him another instruction, “Please do not take the first turning to the left that we would normally take. Take the second turning to the left”.  It took him a while before he […]

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TEARS CAN LEAD TO MORE TEARS

I was still a single Pastor. I was visiting one of my friends in the neighbourhood. It was easier to connect with other young graduates. That evening, her fiance called. The conversation got heated a bit. I guess he was questioning her about where she was, who was with her and the character of the person. We just met some […]

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QUESTIONS THAT BRING LAUGHTER 

We were travelling through the city of Abeokuta. I had a dear mentor of mine with me and he reminded me of one of the memories I can not forget about the city:  I was an active participant in a quiz programme that airs every Sunday on the State Broadcasting Network. I made it to the final of the quiz […]

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