The “C” s THAT WILL HELP YOU (19)- COVENANT 

My first time out of home as a teenager was at a State University. I was just about sixteen years old. One night, I was all alone in the flat when sickness struck. I had no phones to call home. My temperature was high. I was scared.  As I shook with feverish rigour under the thick blanket, I began to […]

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The “C” s THAT WILL HELP YOU (18)- CHASTITY

I still remember where we sat. I was trying my best to share the gospel with her. I noticed she was super quiet for a while. She then dropped a bombshell: “Temi, I appreciate your effort. I have lost it already. Why then pretend like I still have it?”. I had to tell her that living a pure life may […]

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The “C” s THAT WILL HELP YOU (17)- CORRECTION 

We were with a dear teacher, asking questions regarding leadership. He said to us, “Pastor Temi, anyone that is not being instructed or corrected is not being trained. Anyone that is not being trained will soon become a major source of trouble”. That is a very true statement. Correction means to make a change that makes something right. To correct […]

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The “C” s THAT WILL HELP YOU (16)- COURTESY

As we shared experiences about how different people got into the church, there was one that, to date I have not forgotten.  An elderly woman shared that the reason why she came into the church for the first time was that I would always acknowledge and greet her as I walked into the church. She visits a bar beside the […]

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The “C” s THAT WILL HELP YOU (15)- CALMNESS 

I picked up my old journal and scanned through it. At one point, I stumbled on a list of prayer points I wrote down. I began to check through it and saw that the Lord had come through for it all.  One was particularly striking; it was a request for a loyal yet trained person who could serve in an […]

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The “C” s THAT WILL HELP YOU (14)- CHALLENGES

Right after we had the very first meeting as a ministry, I was so elated that I sent a message to my mentor. His response was simple and unforgettable- “Pastor Temi, congratulations, but what next?” I did not know whether to rejoice or how to respond. I have celebrated a milestone, but truly, what next. Beloved, challenges are the food […]

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The “C” s THAT WILL HELP YOU (13)- CHURCH

Growing up as a pastor’s child comes with its troubles. There was a day that we came back from church a bit late. We had hardly settled down after eating and clearing dishes when Dad peeped into our rooms and asked that we get ready for the regular evening evangelism meeting. My older brother did not blink when he told […]

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The “C” s THAT WILL HELP YOU (12)- COMPANY

Two of my sons in the faith got admission to the University. They came to ask me questions and seek counsel. One of the questions was, “Sir, what would you do differently if you were to get admission to study at the University afresh today?” I did not think twice when I told them, “I would not waste time before […]

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The “C” s THAT WILL HELP YOU (11)- CONTRITENESS

The “C” s THAT WILL HELP YOU (11)- CONTRITENESS  In the first year of ministry, I was teaching in a midweek service, and I made a point from the Bible story about women. A young man who was a church member said, “Pastor, all women are like that.” I did not wait for his statement to get cool when I […]

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The “C” s THAT WILL HELP YOU (10)- CONSCIENCE 

There was a year at our stewards’ hangout for the ministry when I decided to represent my group in a football match. It was a lot of fun while it lasted. However, by evening, after I slept and woke up, my body began to communicate with me- I was in pain. My entire body, especially my thighs, became very heavy. […]

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