May 5, 2022

YOU ARE NOT IN COMPETITION WITH YOUR SPOUSE

We were about to wrap up a church hangout for couples when a dear one raised a matter. Someone said to his wife, “Work hard and make a lot of money for yourself because money changes men”. He said his wife told him, and he has not stopped thinking about that statement. We all had an open conversation about it. […]

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May 4, 2022

THE PATHWAY OF THOSE WHO WILL FAIL MORALLY

Irewamiri and I had questions to ask our dear teacher and mentor about the finances of a young family like ours. He looked at us and said, “In my few years on earth, I have seen some of my friends fail morally, and all of them admitted that they first started by failing financially. Any man who fails to be […]

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May 3, 2022

MARRIAGE IS A CURE FOR SELFISHNESS”

Two dear ones had been struggling with their courtship. Matters seem to have gotten to an unimaginable height. Allegations were flying here and there. Their conversation leaned towards a break-up. It was obvious they allowed things to degenerate. Since we had the opportunity to be in their city, it was easy to notice the breakdown so we created time for […]

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May 2, 2022

AN UNTRAINED SPOUSE IS A TICKING TIME BOMB

They had quite some issues in the early days of their marriage. They disagreed over quite a lot of things. It was obvious they loved each other but the issues just seem to be pulling them apart. It had become so bad that it was hard to even hold each other in prayer (that was the first time I noticed). […]

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May 1, 2022

DISAGREEMENTS DO NOT HAVE TO BE THAT HARD

It was a beautiful morning but the atmosphere at home was not that beautiful. An issue was taking some emotional toll on both of us. What had not happened in years happened- our voices were getting loud as we both tried to communicate our feelings. We were both hurt. I got ready earlier and decided to leave the car for […]

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April 30, 2022

NON-DISCLOSURE, HALF DISCLOSURE, COLOURED DISCLOSURE, AND YOUR MARRIAGE

A young lady who had some level of access to us once approached my wife and said, “I want to tell you something ma”. Irewamiri asked what the matter was. Instead of mentioning what the issue was, she asked my wife “Has Pastor not told you? Maybe I should wait for him to tell you”. Irewamiri was wondering what the […]

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April 28, 2022

THIS ATTITUDE CAN BRING DISTANCE BETWEEN YOUR SPOUSE AND YOU

In the early days of our marriage, we had to have a very important conversation. As we drove out that night, I was already contemplating whether to talk to my wife or not! Atthat point, I was almost scared of her reaction toissues.I simply blurted it out, “Baby. I need to tell you this andhope you would not be annoyed”. […]

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April 27, 2022

BEFORE YOU GET ANGRY WITH YOUR SPOUSE

I was sharing a couple of lessons from our marriage journey with an intending couple. Our first conflict in marriage was a compliment that was taken as an insult. It took a while to be able to correct the impression that the compliment created. In marriage, there is a tendency that both parties will communicate from their background. Your choice […]

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