HOW TO MAKE CRITICAL LIFE DECISIONS

He said, “Pastor, I had concluded I was leaving Eruwa that week but I came in for a meeting and you began to teach on how to make critical life decisions and that was how I knew what to do”. The first thing to consider when making a critical life decision like “Where should I settle?”, “Who should I marry?” […]

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HOW COPYING CAN LEAD TO LESS

We were in an appraisal meeting in the ministry- looking circumspectly at the vision and things that have driven it this far. We concluded that there were things we lost because we wanted to copy something else. We concluded that “We must be secure in our model”. One of the things you must pray for in life is the grace […]

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BIGGER THAN WHERE YOU ARE (Living above the Spirit of The Environment)

One of my teachers said to me, “You do not operate as though you are in Eruwa at all. You have succeeded in living above the spirit of the environment.” Many times, people step into our meetings and say, “We cannot believe there is a church like this here”. First, every location has a spirit that is prevalent therein. In […]

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DO NOT LET IT SETTLE IN YOUR SPIRIT

I was in a conversation with an elderly one and he referred to a cultural adage. I smiled and asked him whether there was a biblical back up for that adage. He could not find any but wanted to still justify the adage. I gave up. There are things you have accepted that has shaped your thinking and way of […]

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HOW TO CUT DOWN WHAT SLOWS YOU DOWN

At a point, I realised that it was getting harder to wake up at night to pray. My schedule daily was heavy no doubt but it was easier to press my phone than to stay in the place of prayer. When I discovered this pattern, I issued myself a warrant- I cut down on my meals at night. I ensured […]

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HOW TO SURVIVE DRY SEASONS

We were excited that our trip to the well would come to an end and yes it sure did. Daddy dug a well right behind the house. However, our excitement was seasonal. Why? Our well dries up once the rainy season is over. Once there is dry season, we have to go back to the well. Today, the compound has […]

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HOW TO GET THE BEST FROM A SPIRITUAL MEETING (3)

A dear pastor was teaching many years ago and I heard him say, “A loud Amen is a venison for the soul”. I did not understand him fully until I became a pastor also. There was a day I began out saying blessings over the church and the atmosphere was not receptive. I stopped and moved on to something else. […]

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HOW TO GET THE BEST FROM A SPIRITUAL MEETING (2)

Weeks before we went for the monthly ministers meeting with my spiritual father, I had to spend time investing in prayers. I had set my heart on a particular matter. It had troubled me for a while. We had a great moment at the meeting. I gave attention to every word. And it was as though my Spiritual Father was […]

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HOW TO GET THE BEST FROM A SPIRITUAL MEETING (Part 1)

Every time we go for the monthly meeting with my Spiritual Father, I take time out to pray for him. I back it up with a text message appreciating him for his labour over our life and ministry. I end it by mentioning how expectant I am. My dear pastor and father said to me recently also that “When I […]

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HOW TO TREAT UNWANTED GUESTS

In the early days of marriage, there was a middle-aged man (who was not even close to the family) who would knock on our door without any notice. We would always receive him with a great sense of hospitality. However, his visit was becoming more frequent and uncomfortable for us. Annoyingly even when he knocks and we keep quiet, he […]

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