DO NOT MARRY “A BABY”
Some months ago, I remembered an action of mine that I thought was proof of great spirituality back then in the university, and I was surprised at how ‘simple’ (in the proverbs dimension) I was.
For a while as an undergraduate, I was not rooted in any local assembly on campus. I was getting blessed reading spiritual books. I was already getting introduced to Hagin books, and they were a huge blessing. I was already making amazing friends, also.
I remember days I would be on my way to the regular assembly that I attended, but I would suddenly sense a prompt to go elsewhere. Like that, I would go from fellowship to fellowship. I thought I was really deep. I did not know I was really simple (I got rooted in my third year). I even used to “educate” those who took fellowship too seriously.
Please, do not marry a baby. A baby finds it hard to make a destiny choice promptly and accurately. A baby is immature. That immaturity is cloaked in instability that can be disguised as spirituality. A baby will hide under the cloak of spirituality to cover instability, laziness and inability to carry on conversations.
Even if he has the title of an “Apostle,” but he claims that the wind blows him from place to place, and he goes to a church as led by the spirit of the Lord, he is a baby. He is immature!
A man who cannot decide on which church to settle in for the most part of his adult life cannot be trusted to make a decision to settle with you for life. They are the type who will tell you that “God told them to divorce you” or, at the extreme, “An angel told them to get another wife”.
The instability plaguing some homes today showed up in small doses before they ever started courtship, but they thought it would change with time. Now, the man can not sit down in any local assembly. His rhema is deeper than that of any pastor. The voice of ‘the spirit’ tells him not to go to church but to take time out for six months. He will go when next he is led. The home is depreciating despite his ‘spirituality.’ He uses “God said” as a tool for intimidation, manipulation and control. That is the work of the flesh called witchcraft.
Look closely, he may end up jumping from job to job. He will hide it under “God said” or “I have prayed about it.” He will not be able to tie down a job. Once he is tired of working in a place, the “Spirit” always leads him to convenient options. If he is into business, he cannot stay long enough on a path to see it produce results. He will always try new grounds. He has multiple business cards but no amazing track record. There is more miss than hit in life. Be careful.
If he is a righteous man, let him show it by being planted in the house of the Lord. Have you seen the wind carrying a planted tree and planting it somewhere every Sunday? If you want to see the fruit of the spirit till old age, check whether he is planted well in his youthful days now.
The righteous shall flourish like a palm tree, He shall grow like a cedar in Lebanon. Those who are planted in the house of the Lord Shall flourish in the courts of our God. They shall still bear fruit in old age; They shall be fresh and flourishing,
Psalms 92:12-14 NKJV
Do not let anyone use spirituality to hoodwink you. If he is indeed spiritual, we will see stability and growth. Do not marry a baby!
©️ temilOluwa Ola, Eruwa.