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QUESTIONS OF A GENERATION (6): WHY CAN’T I EMBRACE SOME NUDITY?

After the service, I walked up to my pastor to greet him. At the same time, a young lady, most likely a university student, also walked up to him. My pastor asked her, “Do you wear clothes to school at all?” It was a simple question. She said, “Yes, sir. Yes, sir”. If she could appear like that in church, […]

QUESTIONS OF A GENERATION (3): WHAT IS THE BIG DEAL WITH COHABITATION? 

We had an interesting question pop up recently while interacting with singles about relationships and marriage. The question was, “What is the big deal with cohabitation? Isn’t cohabiting the reason why marriages fail?” The question is simply suggesting that, “If a man and a woman cohabit (live under the same roof) before marriage, they may be able to know each […]

WINDOWS FOR ANSWERED PRAYERS (2)

A story shared stuck with me from my days in Uyo during my National Youth Service: It was said of a Christian brother who was a businessman and quite blessed. He had an amazing family. Unfortunately, he stood as a guarantor for someone who defaulted on some heavy transactions. He went from wealthy to struggling in weeks. Things went really […]

GODLY PRINCIPLES FOR MARITAL BONDING (10)

A few days after our wedding, I walked to the table to eat. Irewamiri had prepared a bowl of ‘swallow’ (I cannot remember which) and soup. What I saw shocked me immediately.  I saw a full bowl of soup. It was a deep bowl.  I asked her, “Who is this soup for? Is this for just the two of us?”. […]

GODLY PRINCIPLES FOR MARITAL BONDING (9)

A while back, we used a home as the place for hosting guest ministers during our convention. We needed a fan to cool down the room. There was a portable air conditioner in the house. We moved it into one of the rooms for use.  Unfortunately, when we plugged it in, we started perceiving a smell. When we moved close […]

GODLY PRINCIPLES FOR MARITAL BONDING (8)

We had quite a heated atmosphere at home that week. We were trying all we could to make it work. I remember telling Irewamiri that morning, “I am afraid of you. When I see our spiritual parents today, I will raise this matter.” She had her own reply too. She served it hot.  I said it in the exact way. […]