THINGS TO SETTLE BEFORE MARRIAGE (5)

When we returned from our one week break after the wedding, someone complained that there were people who did not get to eat at our wedding. My response was simple, “Can I have a list of those who complained that they did not eat so I can know the list of people to unfriend. Both my wife and I do […]

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THINGS TO SETTLE BEFORE MARRIAGE (4)

I had a list of those my wife must meet before we get married (asides my relatives). We made quite some trips. It was tough but it was necessary. At a point, someone told us that we have to reduce our trips but I explained that it was key that my wife met all the people concerned. One of the […]

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THINGS TO SETTLE BEFORE MARRIAGE (3)

She felt so terrible. She still could not believe that she actually fornicated. Her mind was troubled. She knew she had to settle it with God. She prayed till she sensed a relief. She then called the “man in her life”. She began to express regrets and said such would never happen again. The man smiled and said to her, […]

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THINGS TO SETTLE BEFORE MARRIAGE (2)

I got several counsel ever before I asked my wife to marry me. My spiritual father said to me: “Son, there are two things that are very important. First, be sure that you heard God. Second, do not marry a woman who does not believe in God’s vision for your life. If you do, you will be frustrated for the […]

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THINGS TO SETTLE BEFORE MARRIAGE (1)

I was packing my bags to travel that morning. A young man had been trying to see me. I told him we could see briefly. He came in with all excitement. There is a lady he has spotted and would love to marry. Well! I was excited for him too. But when he went on and on about what roles […]

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CLARIFY TO AVOID CLASHES

I had quite some great folks around me when the ministry was about to start. They were amazing people who were giving all they could to ensure that we build a great foundation for the ministry. I had a tough conversation with each one of them. I asked the question, “How far do you want to go with this vision?” […]

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LESSONS FROM VISION (3)

(NOTICE: Have you signed up to partner with me so that the devotionals can reach more people both in hard and soft copies. If you have not, this is the link to sign up- https://temiloluwaola.com/partnership/) When my phone rang that evening, it was one of the ladies in the church at the end of the line. She said to me, […]

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LESSONS FROM VISION (2)

Today makes it eight years of Full-Time Ministry in Eruwa: Just after I settled it within me that I was heading to Eruwa for full-time ministry, I was on a public bus when a call came through. It was a friend I met on Facebook and I had not met in person. She asked me, “What are you planning to […]

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LESSONS FROM VISION (1)

We were on our way to minister in one of the State Capitals in the South West of Nigeria. We made a brief stop that Sunday Afternoon with our teachers. My teacher asked me, “How do you deal with insubordination in the ministry?” The question was quite prophetic for the season that we were in- the spirit of division and […]

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“OLIVE, WAIT FOR YOUR TIME”

While we ate at the dining table, Olive began to reach out to everything in sight. She wanted to eat what we were eating. As her pull was getting stronger and tougher, her mother had to say to her, “Olive, wait for your time. It is just about a month away”. She is on exclusive breastfeeding. When you are about […]

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