HANDLING HURTS

I looked at my proteges that night and said to them, “I pray the blessings of the Lord more for those who hurt me”. They obviously needed more explanation. I did not know when these words dropped from my mouth, “Every hurt is a test for me. The Lord checks my attitude. He checks my heart”. Honestly, offence will surely […]

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HER CRY BUT MY DECISION

As I stepped out to put on the generating set, Danielle ran after me. I said to her, “You are not dressed. You cannot come out. Insects can bite you”. At those words, I slammed the door shut. She burst into tears. She cried but I knew what was the best for her. No amount of tears would make me […]

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THE MISSING CHEQUE BOOK

When I got to the office that morning, it was obvious I needed the cheque book. I searched all over. I could not find it in my office or in presumed places. I went to the other office in the ministry, I searched again. It was nowhere to be found. I went back home. I did not find it. The […]

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DRAWINGS FROM THE FUTURE

That night, he told me that he remembered something. His first few weeks in town when he took a prayer stroll in the morning, he would pass by our house. Unusually, everytime he passes by, he would feel like knocking on the door and asking if he could be accommodated. He constantly sensed a pull to our house. By the […]

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I WILL BE OFF FOR SOME DAYS

That day, my spiritual father asked a group of ministers, “How many of you wake up sometimes in the morning and do not feel like praying?” He then added, “Can you see I am the first to raise my hands? There are days I dont feel like also. My body is complaining but I still pray”. I love his sincerity. […]

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THE DAY MY BROTHER REBELLED

When Dad called my brother for service that evening, I am so sure he did not expect what my brother said. My brother said, “Must it be church all the time?” My dad (the pastor of the church) did not utter a single word. He simply turned around and went to church. Honestly, every man must be able to stand […]

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COUNSEL TO A YOUNG WIFE (7)- final charge

CLICK HERE TO READ COUNSEL TO A YOUNG WIFE (6) Few weeks after the birth of Danielle, we made an amazing discovery- we were already drifting apart gradually. Everything seems to be about our child now. There were days she slept right between us. We wake up and talk to her first before we talk to one another. There were […]

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COUNSEL TO A YOUNG WIFE (6)

CLICK HERE TO READ COUNSEL TO A YOUNG WIFE (5) My dear teacher looked at me that day and told me this parting words about sex in marriage, “No matter what happens, do not take yourselves too seriously. Keep learning. Keep exploring till you get better”. Dear young wife, do you want me to tell you the honest truth? You […]

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COUNSEL TO A YOUNG WIFE (5)

CLICK HERE TO READ COUNSEL TO A YOUNG WIFE (4) In a space of two weeks, we had argued about almost everything. Little things will bring sparks. I spent a while ruminating on what the challenge might be. After one of such disagreements, I gently sought the audience of my wife and told her, “Darling, I noticed that it has […]

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COUNSEL TO A YOUNG WIFE (4)

CLICK HERE TO READ COUNSEL TO A YOUNG WIFE (3) At the breakfast table just before our marriage, my spiritual father said to both us, “No one must come in between you- not your parents, friends, children or church members” Dear young wife, there is something you must NEVER do- do not report your spouse to your parents! Do not […]

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