She asked me, “Pastor when I have an accountability relationship with my mentor or pastor, would it mean that I have to report my spouse to them when he or she misbehaves?” Dear husband, one thing that must never happen is that you begin to report your wife to your parents or your in-laws. You will be shooting yourself in […]
She was in a funny mood that morning. I kept praying under my breath for her all morning. She was giving me short word answers even though we had no misunderstanding. As we drove to work, I asked that we join hands and pray together. She did not want any of it. I wondered what was wrong. Just before she […]
I found it very hard telling her what the Lord said to me. I could not. What if she took advantage of it? But the next morning something happened- she needed some money. God had said to me a day earlier, “Whenever your wife ask for anything, do not grumble. Give her more. Even when you do not have it […]
It was the first year of our marriage. I just knew that the evening was not going too well. My wife seems to be asking for space. We had no arguments whatsoever. Late in the evening, she did not stay in our room. She decided she wanted to stay in another room. She actually shut the door so I could […]
A day earlier, I got reports that a beloved one was disgruntled about certain things and was in a hurry to pull out of the organization that she was a part of. Someone encouraged and spoke with her. The next day, a group of persons approached the head of the organization requesting for permission to give the disgruntled person some […]
A while back, one of the Christian organizations I relate with paid us a courtesy visit in the office. In the middle of our conversation, I realised that one of the female executives had no issue with having her male fiancé spend the night in her room. I had to take out time to teach and guide by the Word […]
Irewamiri started raising chickens. We had seen two tiny ones become huge in a space of two months. Then she got another two but something happened. We came back home and discovered that the two small chicks had been carried by hawks. It was painful. We wished we had caged them and fed them. Weeks later, we got another two. […]
I had an opportunity of seeing a vehicle being towed. The operator of the towing van just after hooking up the car said, “Put the gear on neutral”. A light bulb came on- There was no way he could tow a car with an engaged gear. The gear had to be on neutral. Why? Where the towing vehicle turned, was […]
In the middle of a conversation, a dear one said “We are used to that by now. When she likes she is happy. When she does not, no one can do anything about it. She has a reputation for that”. One of the dangers of mood swing is that it repels favour. The men who are meant to favour you […]
In my second year in the University as an undergraduate, there is a course that it was widely reported that the lecturer in charge was not generous with good grades. The lecturer actually taught us the first semester and the results were not too friendly. However, by the second semester, the lecturer was swapped for another person. First, the course […]
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